In every marriage, love, trust, and communication are key pillars. But sometimes, even with all the effort, relationships face misunderstandings, emotional distance, or constant disagreements. While modern psychology points to emotional and mental reasons, ancient Indian science—Vastu Shastra—offers a powerful yet often overlooked explanation: the energy of your living space could be affecting your relationship.
In this detailed guide, we will explore how Vastu impacts the bond between husband and wife, the common Vastu defects that lead to marital problems, and practical Vastu remedies for a peaceful and loving relationship.
Many couples today face issues such as:
These issues may stem from unseen energy imbalances in the home, especially in the bedroom and relationship-related zones.
The bedroom direction affects mental peace and bonding.Wrong sleeping directions disturbs emotional balance. Incorrect placement of Mirrors, Colors and Furniture creates friction. Clutter and broken objects holds negative energy. By following Vastu Shastra, couples can create an environment that supports Love, Understanding and Harmony.
Let's look at the top Vastu mistakes that lead to conflicts and lack of peace in married life:
North-East Bedroom increases coldness between the couple while South-East Bedroom sparks aggression, anger and ego clashes if not righlty balanced as per Vastu principles.
Sleeping in the Low energy area of the house or pointing the head towards North disturbs mental peace and invites tension.
Mirrors reflecting the bed multiplies the conflicting energy sometimes leading to trust issues and creates unnecessary stress.
Metal beds or furniture with sharp edges emit harsh energy that can disturb peace.
Shades like red, black, grey, or dark blue can create aggression and negativity.
Cluttered spaces block the natural flow of energy. Broken items hold past trauma and grief.
War scenes, sad or lonely art, or photos of deceased family members in the bedroom lower positive vibes.
Attached bathrooms in the wrong direction (especially North-East) can create emotional instability.
Now that you know the Vastu doshas, here are proven remedies to fix them and invite peace and love back into your relationship.
Ideal bedroom for married couples: South-West. Avoid: North-East (mental tension) and South-East (anger, fights)
Position bed in the South-West part of the room. Sleep with your head towards South or East.Use wooden beds (avoid metal)
Never place mirrors facing the bed. Cover wardrobes with mirrors or shift them.
Best bedroom colors: light pink, peach, lavender, cream, sky blue. Avoid fiery or dull colors.
Keep a pair of love birds or swans in the South-West. Use soft romantic decor, like candles, soft lighting, and floral prints
Remove broken clocks, dried flowers, old clothes, and unused electronics. Keep under-bed space empty or clean
Hang a happy couple photo or artwork of love and togetherness. Avoid solo photos or abstract art
Place a pair of rose quartz stones in the South-West corner of the room to enhance love and healing.
Talking about relationships reminds me of a couple from Punjab we assisted a while ago. Here's their story:
An affluent young couple from Punjab reached out to us a few months ago. While they appeared content with their marriage on the surface, their true reason for seeking our help was quite different. Despite being married for over eight years—a significant time to build emotional intimacy—they faced underlying issues. During our initial meeting, they projected an image of romance and intimacy, but their first words shocked us: "Even after eight years of marriage, we don't feel like a married couple at all."
The woman expressed a lack of emotional connection and patience typical in marriages. Frequent arguments over trivial matters strained their communication, making it feel like they were leading separate lives under one roof. They found no joy in each other’s company, which was disheartening. Additionally, the woman's miscarriage before seeking our help highlighted how disturbances in relationship energies can affect our lives.
These common marital issues were particularly concerning given the couple's young age and the relatively short duration of their marriage. As experts, we were determined to find a quick and effective solution to help their marriage thrive long-term. Vastu Shastra emerged as the integrated solution. By aligning the energies of their home, we saw that other problems began to resolve themselves. Once their house was in harmony with Vastu principles, their issues diminished and eventually disappeared.
Our task was to provide effective solutions using Vastu Shastra principles to mend the couple's important bond. A thorough analysis by our team revealed that the specific direction crucial for fostering affection and intimacy was significantly disrupted in their house. Additionally, two toilets were positioned in the area responsible for enhancing intimacy, blocking the flow of energy.
According to ancient scriptures, the vastu of the bedroom plays a crucial role in shaping relationship dynamics. In this couple's case, their bedroom's vastu was incorrect and faulty, contributing to their strained relationship. Occupying a bedroom not suitable for their age group led to significant disagreements. Additionally, the bedroom entrance was not aligned optimally, impacting the harmony and energy flow within their marriage.
Our team provided remedial solutions and conducted a special energy counseling session to reconstruct their minds and clear negative energies. This session aimed for maximum impact on those deeply affected, allowing thoughts to flow freely.
We also assisted the couple with therapeutic procedures and remedies. They received detailed guidance on rearranging their bedroom, including sleeping arrangements, and were advised to add marriage photography in specific directions. Art pieces and accessories were strategically placed according to Vastu principles.
The couple was also advised to relocate their toilets, change wall colors, and make minor infrastructural adjustments to maximize the effectiveness of the remedies. As we prioritize non-demolition vastu techniques, we provided advice on possible accommodations without disrupting the peace of the house.
After dedicating considerable time and effort to the project, we reached out to the couple forty days later. To our utmost surprise, we witnessed a complete reversal of their situation. The woman expressed how Vastu Shastra had completely transformed her life. The couple engaged in more heartfelt conversations, and all arguments had ceased. She remarked, "It feels like a dream. I can't believe the transformation. I'm incredibly grateful to Vastu Devayah Namah for their services. I have never felt so relaxed and at peace before."
All of this could have been fixed sooner, before they started to dislike each other. Our surroundings and its energies, greatly affect our lives. We just need to know how to make these energies work for us, not against us. Vastu Shastra provides the knowledge to do this. If you’re facing problems, contact us. We’ll find the best and most effective solutions for you.
Love is not just a feeling. It is an energy that needs to be nurtured and protected. Vastu Shastra is a powerful tool that helps couples create a space filled with harmony, love, and understanding.
Start with small changes. Align your bedroom, clear the clutter, use the right colors—and you’ll begin to see a positive shift in your relationship. Vastu can’t replace love and effort, but it can surely support and strengthen your bond.
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